Here’s a breakdown of developmental milestones for children aged 2 to 3 years, along with examples of how they link to the EYLF.
Cognitive Development
- Builds a tower of five to seven objects.
- Recognizes and identifies common objects and pictures by pointing.
- Engages in pretend play and symbolic play (e.g., using a block as a car).
- Begins to count with numbers.
- Follows two or more directions.
EYLF Link: Outcome 5 – Children are effective communicators
Example: “Take on roles of literacy and numeracy users in their play.”
Language Development
- Uses two or three words together (e.g., “go potty now”).
- Experiences a vocabulary explosion and uses correct grammatical forms.
- Asks lots of questions.
- Enjoys listening to stories and books.
EYLF Link: Outcome 1 – Children have a strong sense of identity
Example: “Children initiate interactions and conversations with trusted educators.”
Physical Development
- Walks, runs, climbs, kicks, and jumps easily.
- Uses steps one at a time.
- Holds a crayon with fingers and scribbles in circles and lines.
- Self-feeds using utensils and a cup.
EYLF Link: Outcome 3 – Children have a strong sense of well-being
Example: “Show enthusiasm for participating in physical play and negotiate play spaces to ensure safety.”
Social Development
- Plays with other children.
- Engages in simple make-believe play.
- May prefer same-sex playmates and toys.
- Unlikely to share toys without protest.
EYLF Link: Outcome 2 – Children are connected with and contribute to their world
Example: “Children become aware of fairness.”
Further Reading
Developmental Milestones From 2 Months Old To 5 Years Old
Linking Theories To The Developmental Milestones
Cognitive Development for Toddlers 2-3 Year Olds
Social and Emotional Development for Toddlers 2-3 Year Olds
Language Development for Toddlers 2-3 Year Olds
Gross Motor Development for Toddlers 2-3 Year Olds





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