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A Message to Educators: Holding Space for Children and Families During Difficult Times

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A Message to Educators: Holding Space for Children and Families During Difficult Times

Our thoughts and deepest sympathies are with everyone affected by the tragic events at Bondi. We hold close in our hearts those who have suffered loss, those who were injured, and all families and community members navigating shock, grief, or uncertainty. In moments like these, we stand together in compassion, care, and solidarity.

When our wider community is shaken, children and families often look to us for steadiness, gentleness, and a sense of safety. Even when the world feels uncertain, the relationships we build in early childhood settings become powerful anchors.

As educators, we don’t need all the answers. What we can offer is presence, predictability, and compassion.

What Children Need Right Now

  • Reassurance through routine. Familiar rhythms help children feel grounded when the world around them feels unsettled.
  • Emotionally safe spaces. Children may express worry through play, behaviour, or questions. Meeting these moments with calm curiosity helps them feel seen and supported.
  • Honest, age‑appropriate responses. We can acknowledge feelings without providing unnecessary detail. Simple statements like “You’re safe here” or “It’s okay to feel unsure” can be deeply comforting.

Supporting Families

Families may be carrying invisible emotional loads. Some may be directly affected; others may be navigating fear, grief, or overwhelm.

We can support them by:

  • Offering warmth at drop‑off and pick‑up. A gentle check‑in can mean more than we realise.
  • Sharing observations about their child’s well-being. Noticing strengths, resilience, and moments of joy helps families breathe a little easier.
  • Providing calm, factual communication. Families appreciate knowing that their child’s day remains stable, supported, and connected.

Caring for Ourselves as Educators

Holding space for others is meaningful work, but it can also be heavy. It’s okay to feel impacted.
Lean on your team. Debrief. Take breaks when you can. Caring for yourself strengthens your ability to care for others.

Our Role Matters

In times of collective distress, early childhood settings become places of refuge where children experience safety, belonging, and hope. The work you do every day helps families feel less alone and helps children make sense of their world with gentleness and trust.

Thank you for showing up with heart, professionalism, and humanity. Your presence makes a difference.

Further Reading

Supporting Children Deal With Stress
Supporting Mental Health Of Children, Families and Educators
Supporting Children Manage Their Anxiety

Created On December 15, 2025 Last modified on Monday, December 15, 2025
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