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Supporting Children's Self-Regulation

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Supporting Children's Self-regulation

Self-regulation can be understood as a suite of skills needed to control and manage one’s own emotions and behaviours in a wide range of setting. Learning self-regulation in the early years has been consistently linked to not just better adjusted adults but also higher levels of academic achievement in later life. The following provides strategies to support children’s self-regulation in the learning environment. 

Model Calm Behaviour

Children are innate imitators and one of the quickest ways they learn something is by seeing how their adult caregivers are doing it. So be aware of your own moods and actions, especially before your young learners. If a drawer is stuck yet again or a child is bent on disrupting the class, use calm assertive ways to deal with the situations rather than giving way to expressions of anger or frustration. A good idea is to incorporate mindfulness or deep breathing practices in the daily routine, particularly towards the end of the day when tempers are frayed and minds tired.

Put Routines In Place

Routines offer the comfort of the predictable and the familiar in children’s lives which is especially important in early childhood since this is the time they are just stepping out of their homes to explore the wider world. Thus you can have regular schedules for story times and nature walks while setting ground rules for group work and peer play. With familiar structures in place, children are able to negotiate new stimuli and challenges with better control over their emotions.

Encourage Agency

An essential part of learning self-regulation is to face challenging situations. If adult supervisors are constantly hovering over children and reminding them to ‘be careful’, it is difficult for children to explore their surroundings with sufficient control and autonomy. Instead you can:

  • Incorporate choices in your routines like letting children choose the books they want to read or the materials they want to build their structures with.
  • Step back from the situation and let them figure out how to make something or solve a problem
  • Allow children to make mistakes while ensuring they know they can ask you for help

Bear In Mind Individual Variations

Like adults, not all children have the same capacity for self-regulation. Genetics, home environment and cultural factors often influence degree of emotional arousal and behavioural responses. So one child might get more excited or agitated when encountering something new while another might need more time to warm up to an activity or situation. Keeping in mind unique temperaments and biological make-up can help you avoid a one size fits all solution when teaching self-regulation.

Further Reading

Using Music, Rhythm And Movement To Enhance Children's Self-Regulation 
Understanding Temperament In Children 
The Zones Of Regulations

References:

Regulation Skills In Children, Taylor Francis Online Learning

Created On April 14, 2023 Last modified on Tuesday, July 28, 2026
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