My sons Biological father left the scene on bad terms when my son was only 3 months old. There has never been any contact or maintainence paid etc.
My son knows my partner as his father and my partner thinks of my son as his own.
However, my partner and I feel that it is best that our son be raised knowing that my partner is his dad/father/real dad etc. but that someone else helped to make him, and that my partner loved him so much that he chose to be his dad.
(so that he doesnt get told when hes older and feel like hes been lied to, and doesnt end up with more issues than necessary ).
My son is nearly four so we think its about the right time to introduce the topic in a way that he can understand.
The idea we had is through a story book that explains it at his level. (Ive seen one book about a little boy with two dads who are both involved in his life etc. that book doesn't fit the situation but you get the general idea)
I was wondering if anybody knows of where I can find a book like this, or of any other resources I could use.
Id be really grateful,
Thanks guys
