Imran - Bully?

[brookeamy]

Scenario:
Imran (4.7 years) has excellent gross motor skills and enjoys playing with balls kicking, throwing and catching. However, Imran has poor language skills and because of this he tends to be a loner. The educator has noticed that Imran often pushes the younger children, causing them to fall. It appears that Imran does this for no apparent reason

I. Using the guidance continuum select the level of intervention you would apply as an educator.
Brainstorm

I. Give reasons for your answer.
Allow Imran to know what he is doing to other children is not nice and it hurts their feelings. Ask Imran to try and use his words before getting physical, let him know if he is feeling frustrated to come and see and educator – possibly create a stress reliever (i.e. a stress ball) for Imran to use when angry/frustrated

Feedback received:
Imran is old enough to know that pushing younger children is not acceptable.  Language barrier is not a proper excuse for this type of behaviour- Please revise last 2 sections of this question.   Brainstorm is not appropriate as the child does this frequently, your intervention should acknowledge this.

Im not sure which continuum to use! Iv'e tried a few and been told everyone is incorrect. Im thinking possibly take action alongside, and do it yourself? They are the highest levels of intervention

Any help is much appreciated!!

[Lorina]

What are other continuum options?

,
Lorina

[brookeamy]

1. Ignore
Let children sort it out for themselves
2. Listen and watch
Make sure you hear what the children are saying. Become aware of the issues. Make sure children see you are watching and available
3. Act as reporter
Say what you notice and hear: ‘It looks like there’s a problem here’, ‘I see two children fighting’, ‘There are three children and one bike’, ‘I’m hearing shouting/crying’.
4. Step in/set limits
Protect physical or emotional security: ‘Stop the hitting’, ‘We use words, not our hands’, ‘I can’t let you hurt her feelings’, ‘Running inside causes accidents – wait until you go outside’.
5. Ask questions
‘Is there a problem?’, ‘How do you feel about that?’, ‘What is happening here?’
6. Brainstorm
Encourage the child to say what to do: ‘How could we solve this problem?’, ‘Who has a good idea?’, ‘What could you do so that you will both be happy?’, ‘What could you do instead of pushing?’
7. Offer ideas
‘You could get another hammer and work together’, ‘Maybe you need to play alone for a while’, ‘Perhaps you could join the roads together’
8. Offer a choice
‘These are the two things that need to be done. You may choose which you will do first and which you will do second. You can put your things away now and hear our story, or you can put them away during story time and miss hearing it’. This strategy is particularly effective for children who are disorganised and disruptive.
9. Take action alongside
The Educator takes the lead and directs the child by guiding, prompting and modelling: ‘Here’s what we’ll do together’, ‘Let’s talk about what you can do so this won’t happen again’

10. Do it yourself
Take command and telling the children what to do: ‘It seems too difficult to play here. You need to go and play somewhere else’, ‘You have to do something else’, ‘You have to something to make him feel better. Go and ask Annie for a wet washer’.

[Lorina]

QR_BBPOST 4. Step in/set limits
Protect physical or emotional security: ‘Stop the hitting’, ‘We use words, not our hands’, ‘I can’t let you hurt her feelings’, ‘Running inside causes accidents – wait until you go outside’.

,
Lorina

[brookeamy]

Hi Lorina, I have used these options:
- offer ideas
- step in/set limits
- brainstorm
and they have all been incorrect.

Was thinking possibly take action alongside? or am i completely wrong?

[Lorina]

So, are you still stuck on Step 4?

,
Lorina

[brookeamy]

I had emailed my assessors and they gave me some feedback that the answer for number 1 is take action alongside, now how would i put this in action for question 2.

[Lorina]

QR_BBPOST 9. Take action alongside
The Educator takes the lead and directs the child by guiding, prompting and modelling: ‘Here’s what we’ll do together’, ‘Let’s talk about what you can do so this won’t happen again’

So, how would you guide Imran... help him with his language etc.

,
Lorina

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