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Hi there,

I recently completed my certificate 3 in Early Childhood and luckily found employment with a great centre down the road from home. My work allowed my daughter (2 years old) to also attend (which is perfect for me!), we both attend 2 days a week (usually in separate rooms). During the morning when we all play together she is hysterical unless I am with her playing with her (Or holding her). We have only been at the centre for 3 weeks or so, but I am stressing out over the separation anxiety and I feel so upset seeing my daughter cry for me. Is there anyone who has been in this situation or has any advice on how to deal with the situation? Luckily my centre is very supportive and says that my daughter comes first and I can settle her whenever I need to...but it makes concentrating on work very hard for me.

Many thanks in advance

Thank you lorina! Great advice

Hello!

I can understand that sometimes separation anxiety a becomes little hard to manage. But the both of you are at the centre for a few weeks, so according to me give some time and it will be alright for both of you. At the same time, I like to share my thought with you in this respect. I think, you also should follow the below rules to make your child get rid of separation anxiety like other parents do. Such as,
Validate your child's fears and anxieties.
Encourage positive self-talk.
Plan to take small steps through the fall.
Stick to routines.
Talk about the positive aspects of going to school and venturing out in new ways.
Model positive behaviours.

And please do not hang around to your child frequently and let the child be handled by the assigned educator. As much as you will hang around, your child will not be able to be comfortable with others.

Hope this will help!

Thanks

Nandita