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How are you suppose to calm a kid that has ADHD? They don't listen, they go screaming and try punching other kids and the educators. I got told you're not allowed to touch the kids even when they are having one of those moods so what do you do with a ADHD kid?

Hi Macoola,

That's definitely very stressful having to support a child with AHD. I've added some information below which provides simple strategies you can try:

Children with ADHD bore easily and their fast spinning minds need extra stimulation. In the absence of nothing better to do, children with ADHD will lean on their own devises and you don't want them doing that...The quick-fix calming techniques work to soothe the child with ADHD after they already became too stressed or active.

Create a calming environment:
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder children have difficulty remaining calm in a hectic environment. Clearing the clutter and taking a "less is more" approach to decorating can reduce the sensory overload on the ADHD child.

Follow a Routine:
All children thrive in environments that provide routines, consistency and structure. Children with ADHD especially need structure and schedules to feel secure in their surroundings. For these children, a more "military" approach to routines works better. Familiar daily routine should all occur at about the same time every day, with few surprises to upset the Attention Deficit or hyperactive child.

A Place to Relax:
If at all possible, find a space to designate as a relaxation space. It does not have to be a large space but it does need to be away from high activity areas. This little corner can have a beanbag chair and a few books, colouring books or other quiet time activities.

Encourage the child to go to this space when they become angry or out of control, but never make this a place of punishment. This special spot is a positive place where they can go to settle down, sort things out or just hang out when they need to be alone.

Journaling:
For the child who is old enough to write, journaling is an excellent way to untangle frazzled minds and get things off their chest. This technique allows children with ADHD to spill their internal stresses outside themselves and onto paper

Ref: http://www.familyplus.ca/

Here is some more information on how to deal with behaviour regarding a child with ADHD:

Managing ADHD
Self Regualtion/Self Control
Impulse Control

Hope this helps,

,
Lorina

Thank you so much