hi need help challenging behaviour
Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2014 10:26 am
i have a few children
the first child...
she is 3 years of age very active and talks alot
we have 20 children a day in the room so a lot can happen..what she dose is she takes other childrens food from them and she is quick about it to before you can say her name she has already ate it. she is always hitting other children and hits carers sometimes, she eats anything paint she gets on the trolley and glue and paper, at rest time her parents dont want her to sleep cause they find it easer to put to bed at home so we let her rest for about 30 mins while the other children go to sleep while after that she gets an activity to do and if she gets off her bed or makes a noisy we take it off her and ask her to lay still for one mintue then if she is quet will give it back to her, but this seems not to work 5 seconds later she dose it again. its like we have to watch her 24/7 when she gos to the toliet before we even get in there she is doing something silly like sitting in the toliet pulling stuff down like paper towel. duiring group time she cant sit still for more than 5 mins without getting up or saying something, she runis people things by ripping them up or putting in the bin.. she trys to sneek off and go inside and get up to something th other day we had chickens in the cage she figured a way to get it open luckly we got their in time before she got them out, when we talk to her now about her behaviour she starts to cry like staying on her bed but we say there is no need to cry and she stops. when we are outside she is up to things like hitting doing dangerous things on equiment we have tryed talking to her but 5 seonds later she dose it again we have talked to the parents but them seem to not care or just say its not happening at home.. OFC its not cause there is not 20 children in your house its a different enviormnet
PLZ Help
second child
this child is a boy who bangs his head..why well we dont iknow, when its time to pack up he gets upset and finds the hardest surface to bang his head on, when somone takes something off him he bangs his head he dosnt try to get it back just bangs his head and crys, when its time to make bed he dose it again he sometimes dose group time if its a story he will sit there and listen which i was suprise by that, if it something else he wont he sit still he will walk around and if we tell hime to sit on the mat he will get upset if we take the toy off him and he will bang his head, he has started to get worse now he is now hiting other children with his head not hard but still, he will only play with certain things like bikes outside and cars inside mum has taken her to the doc and they said its normal... i have started to document it all
thanks
the first child...
she is 3 years of age very active and talks alot
we have 20 children a day in the room so a lot can happen..what she dose is she takes other childrens food from them and she is quick about it to before you can say her name she has already ate it. she is always hitting other children and hits carers sometimes, she eats anything paint she gets on the trolley and glue and paper, at rest time her parents dont want her to sleep cause they find it easer to put to bed at home so we let her rest for about 30 mins while the other children go to sleep while after that she gets an activity to do and if she gets off her bed or makes a noisy we take it off her and ask her to lay still for one mintue then if she is quet will give it back to her, but this seems not to work 5 seconds later she dose it again. its like we have to watch her 24/7 when she gos to the toliet before we even get in there she is doing something silly like sitting in the toliet pulling stuff down like paper towel. duiring group time she cant sit still for more than 5 mins without getting up or saying something, she runis people things by ripping them up or putting in the bin.. she trys to sneek off and go inside and get up to something th other day we had chickens in the cage she figured a way to get it open luckly we got their in time before she got them out, when we talk to her now about her behaviour she starts to cry like staying on her bed but we say there is no need to cry and she stops. when we are outside she is up to things like hitting doing dangerous things on equiment we have tryed talking to her but 5 seonds later she dose it again we have talked to the parents but them seem to not care or just say its not happening at home.. OFC its not cause there is not 20 children in your house its a different enviormnet
PLZ Help
second child
this child is a boy who bangs his head..why well we dont iknow, when its time to pack up he gets upset and finds the hardest surface to bang his head on, when somone takes something off him he bangs his head he dosnt try to get it back just bangs his head and crys, when its time to make bed he dose it again he sometimes dose group time if its a story he will sit there and listen which i was suprise by that, if it something else he wont he sit still he will walk around and if we tell hime to sit on the mat he will get upset if we take the toy off him and he will bang his head, he has started to get worse now he is now hiting other children with his head not hard but still, he will only play with certain things like bikes outside and cars inside mum has taken her to the doc and they said its normal... i have started to document it all
thanks
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