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Scenario: Gemma and Mia - Writing Letters To Dora

Posted: Sat Jan 02, 2016 1:25 pm
by TheLishWish
Foster the holisctic development and wellbeing of the child in early childhood.

Question: successful in teraction requries children to be able to co-operate, collaborate, negotiate, compromise and problem-solve. Read the scenario and suggest how the educator might assist the children to use appropriate pro-social skills.

Scenario

Gemma (4 years 6 months) and Mia (4 years 7 months) are at the writting centre, 'writing' letters to "Dora".
"I'm going to say I love you", says Mia
"So am i", says Gemma.
"No you can't! I'm saying it first", replied Mia.
"I can say it too", says Gemma.
Mia reaches across and scribbles on Gemma's writing.
"I hate you! Look at what you did to my letter", yells Gemma.
"I dont care", says Mia. "I dont like you anymore!".

Answer:
I would ask Mia to apologies for drawing on Gemma's letter then proceed to ask both of the girls what they really like about "Dora" and then really get excited they have things in common and that its good for everyone to "love" who they like and then set an example of..."you and dad love mummy, nana and pop love mummy, its ok that you both love Dora, i think Dora would feel extra special knowing you both love her lots and lots!"..

Is this all i need?..
Thanks!.

Re: Scenario: Gemma and Mia - Writing Letters To Dora

Posted: Mon Jan 04, 2016 3:58 pm
by Lorina
I think your response is good. The only thing I would change is that I wouldn't force Mia to aplogise. You could explain that Gemma feels very sad because she spent alot of her time and effort making a letter to Dora and that it is ruined because there are all drawings over it. You could ask Mia how she would feel if her letter got ruined... How could she help Gemma feel better? (you could brainstorm ideas). Then you could say "when you're ready you can see if Gemma is alright"...

I just don't think we should force children to say sorry. Children don't understand the meaing of sorry and just saying because they did something wrong is not the intention of the word sorry. A child should understand the concequences of their actions and remember not to do it again...

Hope this helps,

:geek:,
Lorina